Thursday, August 9, 2012
Finding the Perfect Him
Has anybody seen Mr. Right?? They say Mr.Right is waiting for you and if you are waiting for him...How the heck will you find each other??!!
Finding a decent man these days can be a bit of a headache. He's not at the bar, club or church...(I know, I've looked) He's not at work or under a rock...So where, oh where is the perfect him??!!
Ladies and Gentlemen... I've been doing some true soul searching and I've figured out that I'm no longer going to look for the "perfect" him. Truth be told...No one is perfect!! I'm going to work on creating a better me! Yes yes...I'm working on the woman in the mirror!
Compare yourself to a building... It may seem silly but try hard please. The outside appearance of your building needs to be attractive and inviting or no one will want to visit. Think about your personality as the apartments inside... are they renovated and up to date??!! or is plaster falling from the ceilings??!! Who can turn down a woman who is intelligent and witty?? Now, think of your dates as prospective occupants... Luxury housing will only attract established and stable tenants; who will be able to afford, maintain and appreciate their surroundings!
Don't misunderstand me, I'm not saying sell yourself! Not at all!! But have you ever asked yourself..Why do I keep attracting the same losers again and again??? Or have you ever wondered whats the real problem??
Work on creating a better you, so that you can meet a better him! Physical appearance does matter. Hit the gym ladies! We have to get our work out on! Let's work out to get toned up and healthy, not to take pics in thongs on facebook! Working out builds up your self esteem and makes you feel refreshed. When I am a little stressed I go hard at the gym and soon forget about my troubles. I am also thrilled about the difference that I see in my body. Physical fitness promotes self discipline and will upgrade your sexy.
Embrace your inner talents!!
I love to meet people who make themselves happy by pursuing their God given talents. When you do what you love you will smile more and gain a positive out look on life. You want to achieve happiness within yourself first!! This is so important!! So no matter who comes or who goes, you are happy being you! A man can not make you happy! He should only be there to compliment the happiness you possess inside!
I am far from a relationship Guru, but I'm living and learning from my own mistakes. Remember Ladies in order to raise the bar on the men we attract, we first have to work on what we have to offer as eligible single women.
Loving me First! xoxoxo Ms. Chyna BlaQ!
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